can i get the universal criteria for lookin like a hoe. skirt lengths in inches, how tight are my pants allowed to be, haristyles, etc. lemme kno kk
Last night was interesting as hell. Went to a straight club n got carried out by a patriarchal asswipe but that’s another story. While I was by the car being irritated as fuck, a man came to me, and tried to talk to me. I’ll ignore the fact that he repeatedly tried to get my number when I repeatedly said no because I wanna focus on the way he was trying to compliment me. He asked what my name was and my ethnicity. I told him I was chicana and he said “I knew you were too beautiful to be white.” Is it weird that I smiled at this? Cause I be readin shit all over the Internet like my friends brothers status on facebook sayin, “I live for white women.” or all these dudes on event pages for parties being like “all white girls are welcome” … Smh.
it was made so well.
that man just said the most perfect words. i dont know his name. im gonna quote it later.
So the other night, I was at a party at the lacrosse house of a local college. I drank a lot of tequila but I was fully aware of what was going on and a bunch of guys I went to high school with were there. This random dude that I didn’t know (but was friends with with a bunch of guys I know) decided it was a good idea to grab my ass. I whipped around before he could even pull his hand away. “Did you just touch me?” I asked. “Yes, I did. Whatchu gonna do about it?” he replied. Can I just say that this is the first part that scared the living hell out of me? This guy was big. I am a small person and he was approximately a foot taller than me and kind of muscular. “Are you kidding me?” was all I could say. He had just touched me inappropriately and in a sexual manner without my permission and he didn’t care at all that I was upset by it. He’d do it and more probably a million times over.
I wanted to punch him in his face, but if he hadn’t cared about touching inappropriately, he’d probably lay me out quick as fuck.
I wanted to hit him with my glass tequila bottle, but I was so shocked that I couldn’t even do it.
I was so angry.
“What the fuck?” is what I kept repeating, louder and louder. I got angry fast as hell and what made me blow the fuck up was the fact that this other guy took the initiative to come tell me that I “needed to calm down.” “Me? Really? How about you shut the fuck up and get this dude then?” He just kept telling me to be calm.
The guy who touched me started walking out and I just kept yelling at him and followed him. Then all the boys I knew decided to grab my arms and tell me I needed to calm down and that they “didn’t want any problems.” I ripped away, ran outside, and broke my bottle on the glass. I just yelled at this dude and told him he was a piece of shit til he felt terrible and decided to leave. Then I got yelled at that I blew it out of proportion. I told all the boys, “I cant be here if you’re going to defend him.” “We weren’t defending him; we just didn’t want problems,” Ty said. “THEN GET YOUR FRIEND IN LINE AND WE WONT HAVE PROBLEMS YOU IGNORANT FUCK,” I said and left.
I’m still very angry and unsatisfied with how this went down. I’m really fuckin sick of my ass being grabbed by all these dudes. I’ve been thinking about it and wondered what if I harbored my anger and was calm, and politely asked him to stop. Was the way I reacted wrong?
Justice for Rekia Boyd
Sign the petition to have Servin charged.
Undercover cop, Dante Servin, pulled up on a group of people late at night. Servin says he fired because a gun was pulled. All eye witness accounts say no gun was pulled. Rekia was an innocent bystander who the bullets hit while Servin was shooting the man who allegedly pulled the gun. I don’t know the man accused of pulling the guns name.
Another petition: http://www.change.org/petitions/rekia-boyd#
just sign them both actually.
You know what pisses me off to no end? Seeing women trying to fit in with misogynistic assholes. This boy I know put an April Fools status up on fb saying he found love last night and that women need to be respected. To make it worse, the first one to comment on it is this girl saying, “April Fools? Females are bitches.”
This girl is always the first to try to demonize women. Hoe this, hoe that, close your legs, blah blah blah. Oh, you think it’s cool that all your friends are boys? Oh, you think that when they talk shit about women that they’re excluding you? You think that when they are violent that it will change for you, because you’re a friend? Because you agree with them? They won’t. None of that shit matters to them. I know your friends and especially the kid who’s status you commented on. They give no fucks.
